Integrity and Impeccability.
When we walk on this earth and we are not feeling in our power it is showing us that we are not walking with integrity and impeccability.
We may be trying to please others by being something we are not. We may be wanting to be accepted, we may be to fearful of stepping into our power due to the possibilities of judgement and people not liking us. Also to the fear that we may loose everything that we have up to date held close to us. We may be fearful of our personal relationships changing. We are taking a huge risk by walking into the unknown. Authority can keep one from walking ones path
When we step into our power we are not affected by what others think about us. We walk our talk, we stand tall in the face of adversity.
We may be giving our power away to others who are feeding on it to build up their own ego mind state and then we have fallen from our own inner strength or if we have never found it even, this can really have a very negative affect within us.
It can start to corrode our inner being, we may start to build up anger, resentment, frustrations, dis-ease etc within our beings.. When we are able to speak our truth and even if that truth is not heard or affirmed, and we still stay with our own beliefs we are walking with integrity.
Stepping into your own power may mean that there is going to be changes in your life that may look very challenging.
For example, if you are in a relationship where you feel powerless and you feel the rising of your own power which is to say stop, I don’t like this, NO, this will change patterns of behaviour. You want change, if your partner/friend/family etc sees this and grows with you then there is healing, movement forward and impeccability moves into the relationship. If the partner… wants no change, does not to take some responsibility for change and you still talk you truth there may be breakdown in the relationship…this is then when you are facing integrity and impeccability, by still staying with what you want, what you believe in. If there is no change then maybe it will be you who has to walk away.
With integrity come dignity,compassion impeccability,devotion to your own truth, honesty, and an unwavering in you own belief even when there are contrary influences.
This is not to say that you then become self important and righteous with you own power, this is impeccability. With your own empowerment comes humility, you have forgiveness within, and an ability to recognise when your own power struggles are at play and to be honest about it.
With integrity we make sure that we are in no way trying to control others, we are honest and have no hidden agendas. We are watchful of ourselves and we can catch ourselves when we start to be more aware about how we have been in the world and how we want to be in the world.
When we start to shift in our awareness of what we are doing to create drama and destructiveness with self and towards others we can stop this much quicker. We may not have to even face these problems. We become healthy, more vibrant and more positively active within relationship to ourselves, to our lovers, friends, within our workplace and in general. We start to know ourselves. Recognising ‘warts and all’ ! and accepting that non of us are perfect but we are at least trying to become clearer and move into the higher vibrations that integrity will produce.
Self investigation as to how you are feeling with you self and within relationship with others is very important for your own health and well being.
Are you allowing people to manipulate you for your own needs.
Are you controlling others for your own benefit, without the use of integrity. Are you honest?
Are you not telling your truth thus allowing others to keep acting inappropriately with your permission…for they do not know until you tell them that this is a behaviour/action that does not sit right with you.
Are you fearful of the changes that moving into your own truth will bring. A very huge proportion of us allow our lives to be lived like this through the fear of hurting others to gain our own freedom. Does this stop you walking your truth?
Are you fearful of loosing everything, work, financial stability, friendships, your marriage, your children etc.
Can you be honest with your self about your own dramas, priorities, needs and goals and then look at your own behaviours to see if this is serving your true purpose with Integrity and with impeccability, which is to be at your best at all times.( a goal for all of us to achieve in.
Suzanne Louise Elliott 